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Getting the kids ready for school is the most stressful time of the day. It never fails to be the time when my hormonal eleven year old also decides to have a temper tantrum. I always start out calm and composed. We need to leave in ten minutes. My daughter decides it is a good time to play the piano. I feel my blood pressure go up. Next thing I know she runs upstairs and locks herself in the bathroom. I look at the clock and it re three minutes before school starts.
I lose it. What do I do? Leave her there and take my mom fantasies to school? Tears streaming down my face, I call my husband. How much more of this can I take? As mothers we deal with a lot of stress, frustration, and challenges we never see coming. We knew it would be challenging when we decided to have these little angels. After I finally got my kids to school I sit down and scroll through Facebook, trying to decompress. At the top of my feed I notice a post advertising a new movie called Bad Moms. It stars Mila Kunis, who plays Amy, who has a husband, overachieving children, beautiful home and successful career.
Watching the trailer I wondered if this movie was about me? Was someone following me around taking notes? I laugh out loud. With a full time career, I balance relationships between physicians, hospital executives, staff, and my manager. Then I come home and balance another four hours of scheduling for the next day, after school activities, dinner, and homework.
Many women have had similar journeys. This is why there is so much excitement for the movie. We are tired of putting on our performance face and holding it together with a smile. We fantasize about dropping it all and moving to the Bahamas.
Who is this bad mom? Most women see her as the opposition to perfection. Bad mom is crazy, uninhibited, and loves herself! Whether we have a career or choose to be home with our kids we create patterns based on a belief system that we need to do it all while still looking perfect. Whatever your pattern is, understand it can lead to the perfect storm.
This is where you snap. By not acknowledging your true self and your desires and mom fantasies large amounts of energy in being a perfect mom, your battery is drained and you decide to rebel. These self-destructive behaviors may give momentary relief, but they are a band-aid.
The fantasy of being a bad mom is an opportunity and a wake up call. If you want real changes to occur in your life give yourself permission to go deep and ask yourself what it is about being bad that you find so attractive? What is it that you need to explore? What would you like to change? I welcome you to track your bad mom fantasies.
Create a Bad Mom Bucket List! This will help you identify area of your life that need to change in order for you discover abundance in all areas of your life! Treat yourself to a healthy splurge. Have fun with it! If you want more ideas go to my Facebook at www. Name required. Mail mom fantasies not be published required. This is where it starts my friends. Create boundaries 2. Honor yourself 3. Get sleep, even if this means going to the guest room 7. Communicate your sexual needs 9.
Sleep in and not feel guilty about it Treat yourself to a healthy splurge Have fun with it!
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